Some Mantras for Enlightened and Fulfilling Married Life
=Pt.ShriRam Sharma Acharya
Every G—ahastha Yogi should adopt these mantras whole-heartedly. He must chant them several times during the day. He may write these on a small card and carry it along and he should read them whenever he gets time, contemplating upon each written word. If possible, he should frame it in a poster and hang it upon a wall in his room. Early in the morning while getting up from sleep he must read these mantras a few times before getting busy in the daily chores, and take a vow that he would try his best throughout the day to do all the activities in accordance with the deep sentiments hidden in these words and that he would sincerely try to match his conduct with these thoughts. For one who leaves his bed contemplating upon these mantras, this effect would stay with him throughout the day.
The instructions given to the inner unconscious mind early in the morning go very deep; they do not fade in the memory easily and recur in the conscious mind at the right time. Mantra 2: The Oath of Firmness Every morning a G—ahastha Yogi must chant – I am a G—ahastha Yogi My life is oriented towards sadhana What do others do, how they do it, what they do, say and think – I do not care, for I am satisfied with myself My true sadhana of performing my duties is so great, so satisfying, calming and fulfilling that it suffuses my soul with bliss I shall continue my enriching, blissful sadhana uninterruptedly I shall always perform all my duties towards my home with selfless attitude. This oath must get firmly ingrained in mind. Whenever the mind begins to waver and infirmities appear to set in, this oath must be reaffirmed with sincerity.
Before falling asleep in the night all the actions during the day should be thought over again: What activities did I do today that were related to my family? What were my errors in carrying these out? What inappropriate actions did I perform out of selfishness? What wrongs did I do unintentionally? Which actions were good, appropriate and in perfect accordance with the tenets of G—ahastha Yoga? All the activities done for the family must be divided into these categories and then means to correct the errors made must be found out.
Adopting the process of (i) searching for mistakes and errors, (ii) accepting them, (iii) being ashamed of them, and (iv) putting sincere, honest efforts to correct them , one can reduce one’s mistakes day-by-day. Mantra 3: The Oath to Fight All Shortcomings and Faults On the path of sadhana of G—ahastha Yoga, a sadhak is faced with a number of new problems every day. Sometimes due to his errors and at other times due to others’, incidents keep unfolding that are not in consonance with the tenets of G—ahastha Yoga.
A sadhak wishes that each of his action should be perfect and according to the principles, but mistakes keep recurring. Sadhak believes that in a few days, in a few weeks, or a few months all his faults would be rectified and his actions would become perfect. But when a long time passes by and the errors do not subside, then his mind begins to worry and feelings of disappointment and failure begin to creep in. He thinks: “I am trying so hard and yet am unable to sublimate my nature. I err daily and my sadhana is not progressing properly.” Sometimes he thinks: “My family members are silly, idiotic and irresponsible.
They trouble me and annoy me; they do not allow me to tread on the path of sadhana. So it is not worth continuing my sadhana anymore.” Egged on by such disappointing thoughts he gives up on his oath. Every sadhak must take precautions against this difficulty. It is certainly true that human nature has its own fallacies and shortcomings. The day a human overcomes all his shortcomings he would attain the supreme spiritual state, and become free. Till he has not arrived at his destination, he has to remain in human form with all its known shortcomings. When there is a mix of several individuals, in which some are in an advanced spiritual state and some are lagging behind, it is but natural that new errors and mistakes would surface every day. Some of these would be committed by us, some by others. The frequency of occurrence of these errors would reduce gradually, but it is impossible to believe that our family would transform into a family of deities. So neither there is any need to be afraid of difficulties nor to get worried and perturbed.
Thanks GOD, Thanks Sadguru,
Shiv Sharma