Intelligence
vs Emotions
=Pt.ShriRam
Sharma Acharya
Emotional Maturity, Values and
Spirituality:It is well
known that emotions trigger impulse to act and the tendency to act is implicit
in every emotion. Seven prime emotions, namely anger, fear, happiness, love,
surprise, disgust, and, sadness – each prepares the body and also the rational
(or so called ‘intelligent’ mind) for a different kind of response. Emotions guide us to face danger, painful loss, perseverance,
bonding with a mate; building a family, etc. In short, emotions are the core of
our sensitivity as human beings.
However, emotional excitement,
be that of any kind, is undesirable. For example, emotional explosion leads to
brutal crimes; excessive sorrow puts one into depression; laughter due to
over-joy is also an explosion of emotions and may lead to emergencies. Growing violence, selfishness,
meanness of spirit and deterioration of other factors affecting personal and
social values have intensified the need for improved Emotional Intelligence of
the common man today.
Emotional Intelligence [2] pertains to self-control, zeal
and persistence, the ability to motivate oneself, one’s character, sentiments and moral
instincts. Prime sign of
emotional wisdom is emotional honesty: being real and true to self. It builds
personal power, awareness, inner guidance, respect, responsibilities and
connection. Emotional fitness implies being clear and getting along with
circumstances and people under different circumstances. This is why it is so
important in personal and professional management. Its immediate benefits
include authenticity and hence social respect, resilience without compromising
with values, ability of constructive discontent, initiation and renewal of
trusting relationships .
Emotional
Depth enables knowing one’s own
emotions and controlling them, recognizing emotions in others and controlling
them. It is therefore referred as ‘ reaching
down and stepping up’. It builds
core character, potential, integrity, purpose, influence without authority,
applied integrity, commitment, unique and high purpose, self-motivated
evolution.
What is rightly termed by modern thinkers [2] as emotional alchemy includes
sensing opportunity, competing for future, (in a righteous way?), opportunity sensing,
creating suitable future, ability of natural situational transformation,
reflective time-shifting, and adaptive decision making (Fluid Intelligence).
Further advancement of EI arises with spiritual refinement and endows
one with the faculties of emotional feedback based intuition, emotional
intuition, intuitive emotional energy, intuitive flow, intuitive innovation,
and intuitive intelligence.
Self-inspired adoption of
ethical norms, transmutation of personal value system and expansion of social
values for the welfare of all are successive outcomes of progress in emotional
intelligence.
Thanks GOD, Thanks Sadguru,
Shiv Sharma
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