Personality ; Pujya Gurudev

How to Make the Personality Magnetic?

=Pt.ShriRam Sharma Acharya

How to Make the Personality Magnetic? Priyam ma krnu devesu priyam rajasu ma krnu Priyam sarvasya pasyata uta sudra utarye. Atharvaveda 19/62/1 O Lord! Make me dear to gods. Make me dear to kings. May I be dear to all the viewers, be they sudra or vaisya (the servitors or the professionals). Attractive personality is formed by the judicious mixture of strength and emotions.

The better the synthesis of these two elements, the more magnetic and charming the personality will be. Both the attributes are doubtlessly essential but their real significance and meaning lies in their proper synthesis. In isolation, either of the two loses its effectiveness. Strength alone without emotion and sensitivity does make a person capable and competent, but simultaneously makes him cruelrhearted too.

Consequently, people, even as they feel attracted to the powerful person, also remain inwardly scared of him. The same is the case with emotions without strength. In this condition, the personality develops tender feelings but lacks in determination and competence.

This type acquires "the poor fellow" image inviting from the people a patronizing attitude. Such a personality can be anything but attractive. It is true that the thinking and behaviour of such a person touch the inner chords of those who come in contact, but for want of sufficient capability he is unable to provide them any succor. All the tender emotions in life can not add up to power and strength, and such persons are generally forced to lead the life of an imaginative and emotional but weak person. 

Therefore, if you are desirous of making yourself magnetic, combine your strengths with emotions and then see how soon you become the centre of everybody’s attraction. People of every age, class and qualification will vie with one another to be near you.

The world will hold you up as a role model; it will talk about you, dream about you and want to become like you. Whether you are a man or woman, farmer or officer, student or housewife, it does not matter. In every condition and every situation, the doors to personality furbishing are open to you. You have only to make a start. The first step is to get ready to make the body and mind receptive and deserving. Remember, body becomes capable by selfrcontrol and mind by introspection and contemplation. A disciplined and regulated liferstyle and light physical exercises impart a certain beauteous luster to the body.

Thanks GOD, Thanks Sadguru,

Shiv Sharma